When to Be Nice, When to Be Kind, How to Tell the Difference
One of your points is that you have to recognize someone's needs before you can act kindly to meet that need. That's an "active effort", too. Keeping yourself in the mode to see what you can do for someone.
One of your points is that you have to recognize someone's needs before you can act kindly to meet that need. That's an "active effort", too. Keeping yourself in the mode to see what you can do for someone.